At 1 year, 5 months, things are getting interesting and challenging. As much as new and delightful hints of Dani's creativity, witt and intelligence shines through, she does have her stubborn and naughty side.

Battle ground now is eating. She loves snacking! But when mealtime comes, she refuses most of the things that we give her and she prefers apples, pears, yoghurt, ice cream instead! As delightful as it may be, we can't give it to her every single time.

This struggle started this week. So now starts the establishing of authority, discipline and obedience. Easier said than done. When those pouting lips, glaring eyes that melt into a whimper than a sob... Its the toughest thing to sit through. I've never felt so frustrated, sad and irritated in a long time.

But Bryan and I have been tackling this together and as much as we would like to show her love, we also have to stand our ground and be firm.

We're not there yet. Far from it. But its a learning process for all of us.

In 2 minutes, I'm bringing her down for dinner again. I pray she behaves better this time, with Bryan still at the gym.

Unconditional love come comes discipline as well.